Stop pretending

 

Note to Self by Joe Thorn is a book that I now use as a daily devotional. Each day I will share the scripture passage and an expert from the book and a few of my own thoughts as part of my blog.

Scripture passage Romans 1:12

¹² When we get together, I want to encourage you in your faith, but I also want to be encouraged by yours

Section from the book

When you pretend, you lose gospel influence in two ways—inwardly and outwardly. You lose the inward influence of the gospel in that you are not honest with others and deny them the opportunity to speak into your life.
You lose outward influence of the gospel in the lives of others because you can’t offer them anything that is real. Your best resource for speaking into others’ lives is from what God is doing in you, the fruit that God is producing in you. But the fruit you want others to see is plastic. It is believable from a distance, but it nourishes no one. It is not real.

 Simple thoughts

A lot of people pretend that everything is okay even when it’s not. I think it becomes a pride thing that you don’t want anyone to know that there is something wrong in your life. Did you ever stop to think that by always being okay when someone asks may lead to three different outcomes? One may be a missed opportunity for you to share the Gospel by how God is working in your life. Another may be the missed opportunity that the person you are talking to could have possibly helped you. Or last and most likely that you come off as plastic fruit, just plain fake and when you do this you do no one any good. So don’t pretend when you interact with people especially God’s people be real.